For a very long time, I felt like I was unlovable. These feelings stemmed from my past experiences, failed relationships and how men have treated me in the past. I had come to accept that maybe love and healthy relationships were reserved for other people, not me. This all changed when I found God. I […]
Life In My 30s
Hello and welcome back to the blog. Life has been pretty interesting lately. There is a lot of growth and self-discovery but also lots of frustration and lesson learning. Being in your 30’s brings challenges of its own. Personally, I’ve been feeling lonely lately and I’ll tell you where it’s been stemming from. At this […]
9 Things I Learnt From My Failed Relationships
While scrolling through Facebook, I came across a blog post on the Black Women Who Blog group, written by The Real Black Carrie Bradshaw. She was promoting her post titled “25 Things I’ve Learned From My Failed Relationships” and after reading it, I decided to curl up by the fireplace with some snacks and a […]
6 Years Single
It just dawned on me the other day that I have been single for 6 years… DAMN! They really aren’t lying when they say time flies. Maybe you’ve read some of my previous posts and can sort of guess why this is the case. It wasn’t something I necessarily planned, it sort of just happened […]
Stealthing – Let’s Talk About It!
We love getting down and dirty between the sheets and sex is an important part of an intimate romantic relationship BUT today let’s talk about this despicable act known as stealthing… What is stealthing you ask? Stealthing is that despicable thing that some people do whereby they take the condom off without your knowledge or […]
There IS Such Thing As Being Happily Single
Being alone will always be better than being with the wrong person or someone who doesn’t love or appreciate you. So many people have tried to tell me how I feel about being single; they’ve said things to me like ” you can’t be single and happy; there’s no such thing”; “stop lying to yourself […]